THE WORK I DO: an introduction to tantra for men
An introduction to tantra for men (part 1): 60minutes (up to 1hour)
An introduction to tantra for men provides you with the space to learn the basic tools about how to become a multi-orgasmic male.
As Clare Maxwell-Hudson suggests in her book, The Book of Massage, “A caring, massage creates feelings of well-being, trust and joy. It can also release a great deal of energy hitherto wasted in tension and by transforming chronic habits of acting and reacting, effect a profound change on posture and facial expression. The emotional aspect of massage is all-important.”
This is a massage that lasts up to 60 minutes. Both of us are in the nude and it involves genital massage. Part 1 involves Swedish massage using oils, Sport massage using stretching + massage of your perineum. The perineum matters, because this is the area that the Tao sexologists like Mantak Chia call the ‘million dollar point.’ The perineum is situated between the anus and the balls.
KUNDALINI: Becoming A Multi-Orgasmic Male
When this area is massaged, it activates the Kundalini. Kundalini is an energy that is situated in the base chakra.
Kundalini is the source of all energy in humankind and the universe, whether sexual, emotional, mental, psychic and spiritual.
Becoming multi-orgasmic means to learn how to harness and control this universal energy (SEMEN RETENTION & TANTRA).
On The Couch, Volume 1
By Tom Bianchi
An introduction to Tantra for men (part 2): 90 minutes
This is a massage that lasts up to 90 minutes. As above + genital massage (penis, balls, and arse massage). Prostate massage is done on request. If you would like your prostate massaged, please be prepared with a shower and a douche.
Regular prostate massage helps men stay healthy. Practicing anal massage helps all men to improve their wellbeing:
The Multi-Orgasmic Man
By Mantak Chia
The reason for this is because a so-called ‘bottom’ experiences the benefit of having his prostate massaged during anal intercourse. The only thing that prevents all men from experimenting with their sacred sexuality is lack of information, ignorance about the male body and ancient cultural taboos.
FIRST THE HURT, NOW THE HEALING ...
Unfortunately, men are the least likely to discuss sexual issues and questions. For example, prostate cancer is one of the most common cancers in men above the age of 45. However, most men have no idea where their prostate is or what its function is. As Bill Brent explains in his book, people everywhere are experimenting sexually.
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
By Bill Brent
This is why the help of a sexologist is beneficial in providing answers to any questions regarding our God-given sexuality, “I read somewhere that 30% of married couples had experimented with butt play or did it regularly. When you recite statistics, people get this relieved look on their faces, like, ‘Oh, I’m not bad!’ So I think there’s a stigma, but it’s what people think everybody else thinks, not necessarily what everybody does think. I think there’s a ton more butt play going on than anybody’s willing to admit.”
Although becoming versatile in bed, experimenting with being a ‘top’ and/ or a ‘bottom’ (with a man, a woman or with sex toys), is part of the process of becoming multi-orgasmic, this is not the full picture. Becoming a multi-orgasmic man involves learning to control your ejaculation using meditation techniques in order to prolong and increase orgasms.
A man at thirty can ejaculate once every eight days.
A man at forty can ejaculate once every ten days.
A man at fifty can ejaculate once every twenty days.
A man at sixty should no longer ejaculate.”
The Multi-Orgasmic Man
By Mantak Chia & Douglas Abrams Arava
(Quote by Sun Ssu-Miao, one of the leading physicians of China, who lived to 101!)
The Wisdom of Squatting
As a massage therapist and a yoga teacher I come across many clients who complain about pain in their lower back. I tell them that the worst thing for your back is sitting on a chair, a coach or a toilet seat. As human beings, we are meant to squat. When you look at children move, their spine is naturally straight and relaxed. Slouching is the behaviour we learn when we go to school. Squatting is the position that nature intended for bowel movements and for giving birth.
Sitting on a chair means our body has to work harder to get the same results. Chairs encourage you to slouch, which place unnatural pressure on the spine. When we repeat this movement daily, for many hours at a time, the result of this mismanagement of the spine can only lead to one result. More pain!
When I travel the world, there are no toilet seats, only a hole in the ground. Squatting to go to the toilet is what all humans did until the Industrial Revolution (1700-1900). Western contemporary urban men and women suffer from irritable bowel syndrome (IBS). Bowel cancer is the second highest cancer for the modern men and women (N.B. Note that when you squat, the heels need to be on the floor in order to provide extra stability. Don’t try squatting in high heels; especially if you’re a bloke).
Touch the Earth
Touch the Earth. The Earth acts like a natural battery to restore the human body to balance. Imprisoned in our rubber soles, our four walls, living in our concrete jungles, most of us have forgotten that the Earth is our healer. Cultivating flowers, fruit and vegetables from seed, cooking over an open fire, dancing and playing barefoot, sleeping in the forest, swimming naked in the sea; these are some of the simple pleasures that also connect us directly to a Power greater than us all. Walking and running barefoot as often as possible also improves the health of our feet, our posture and general wellbeing. We all need protection from extreme weather, sharp rocks and grass. However, wearing rubber soles isolates us from our greatest source of power. Touch the Earth.