FAQ: Frequently Asked Questions
• I AM SHY AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN MASSAGED BY A MAN.
Man to man massage is something human beings have done for a very long time in every culture. The only exception is contemporary urban Western cultures where we have been taught to be ashamed of our bodies; where loving touch is seen as something un-natural. These ideas have been around ever since our current religious education. The solution to this mis-education is to make massage in general and man to man massage in particular something that everyone can enjoy, whatever your cultural background.
• I AM UNCOMFORTABLE WITH MY NAKED BODY.
And no wonder. We are bombarded 24/7 with the perfect body images in the media, no wonder so many of us (men and women) feel uncomfortable with the body we have. The question is, do we want to spend the rest of our lives ashamed of our bodies, or are we willing to celebrate our bodies exactly as it is? This starts with small steps. Naturism heals because it proves our bodies - whatever the size or age, is acceptable as it is. To truly believe that our bodies are beautiful takes time, and that involves changing our mentality. Learning to love ourselves as we are. Today.
• WHAT HAPPENS IF I GET AN ERECTION?
I have a bucket filled with ice cubes to deal with that problem...
Erections are nothing to be ashamed of.
• IS IT A GAY MASSAGE?
An introduction to tantric massage is for all men, whether gay, straight, bisexual or just curious.
• ANY HAPPY ENDINGS?
I offer happy beginnings, happy middles and happy endings. The aim of my massage is to leave you feeling refreshed, rejuvenated and relaxed. Tantra teaches us that the orgasm is not the goal. What we aim for is meaningful connections, resilience and human warmth.
• WHERE ARE YOU BASED?
I am based in South Liverpool, just 15 minutes walk from Lime Street station (or 10 minutes from Edge Hill Station); or if you are travelling by car, 10 minutes from the M6. I am based close to Sefton Park and Princes Park near Lodge Lane click here for a map.
• HOW DO I BOOK AN APPOINTMENT?
I need 24 hours notice for a home call and 48 hour notice for an outcall. Please text to book your appointment. Leave your name and number so that I can get back to you (withheld numbers mean that I cannot return your call).
• WHAT TIMES DO YOU WORK?
I work at the following slots on most days: 10am, 12pm, 2pm, 6pm, and 7.30pm.
• HOW DO I PREPARE?
If you want a massage, please prepare with a shower. If you want a prostate massage, please prepare with a douche (douche kits are available from most sex shops; cost about £10). The prostate massage is done with lubrication and a finger in a latex glove. It is clean, safe and relaxing.
• WHAT IS A LINGAM MASSAGE?
This is the penis (lingam) and scrotum (balls) massage. The aim of the lingam massage is to encourage greater connection between the genitals and the rest of the body: to heal alienation in a man between his heart chakra (love) and his genital chakra (power); to connect the penis to the heart. When love and power are united in harmony, a man is able to live safely within the community. Such a man is able to live intimately and appropriately in the world.
• WHAT IS TANTRA?
Tantra is a meditation. It is using the skills of meditation and breathwork to incorporate sexuality as part of your spiritual practice. The goal of tantra is not orgasm but, as
Tom Bianchi said, “Meaningful connections, resilience and human warmth.”
Tantra = no chemsex, no poppers, no alcohol and no porn. Please prepare abstain from intoxicants 24 hours before your massage.
• CAN I BRING MY WIFE/GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND/ PET DOG ALONG TO WATCH?
I work one on one.
• CAN I TOUCH YOU?
Groping is not welcome; mutually respectful contact is welcome. I always recommend to clients to take this opportunity to focus on their own relaxation. This is your time to be pampered. The focus is on you.
• HOW OFTEN SHOULD I HAVE A PROSTATE MASSAGE?
Prostate massage has many health benefits, as well as being pleasurable. The general consensus is to have one prostate massage per week. Any more than that, and you're just being greedy!
• DO YOU DO OUTCALLS?
The starting price for outcalls starts at £95 (which usually take place in hotels). The extra price is for travel cost and travel time; the further the travel the more the massage will cost.